MEN’S RELATIONSHIP & LIFE COACH
Thing keeps going wrong.
And deep down, you know it's you.
Most men repeat the same patterns in relationships — not because they're broken, but because nobody ever taught them differently. I've been that man. Now I help others find their way out.
MEN'S COACH · COSTA RICA
THOMAS BACKHAUSEN
ENTREPRENEUR · COACH
FROM DANISH ENTREPRENEUR TO MEN’S COACH
MEET THOMAS
I spent years building companies, restaurants, and cocktail bars — studying acting in LA, moving across continents. I was good at the external game. What I was bad at was myself — specifically, the patterns I kept repeating in my closest relationships.
RECOGNITION
Does this sound like you?
Most men I work with aren't broken — they're just stuck in patterns they can't quite see. If you're nodding at more than two of these, we should talk.
You keep ending up in the same place in relationships — even with different people.
You feel like you're performing a version of yourself rather than actually living.
You want to be a better partner, but don't know where to start.
You've read the books and know the theory — but nothing has really shifted yet.
Something keeps going wrong, and deep down, you know it starts with you.
Real Results. Real Men.
WHAT MEN SAY
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WORK WITH THOMAS
Choose your path forward
The primary work is 1:1 coaching — deep, personal, and built around you. Everything else supports the same journey.
3-Month
Programme
Deep, personal work built around your specific patterns. No templates. No generic frameworks. Just honest conversation and tools to change — at the root.
- Bi-weekly 60-minute video sessions
- Direct access between sessions
- Relationships, identity & self-awareness
- Danish or English — your choice
- Minimum 3-month commitment
What we work on
READY TO START?
Stop settling. Start Changing.
A free 30-minute intro call. No pressure, no pitch — just an honest conversation about where you are and whether we're a good fit.
Free · 30 minutes · No commitment